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In
the 18 years since her birth Princess J has built upon the inspiration
of these two grand ladies and the tribe around her. She is a lady who
understands and appreciates the gifts endowed upon her and is dedicated
to fulfilling her potential.
Princess J possesses the spirit of a cetacean, (dolphins, whales...) as
evidenced by her quick connection with dolphins at Sea World in Orlando.
Through intense mental energy and a series of hand signals PJ initiated
a rapport with the dolphins that baffled the Sea World staff. More than
once, dolphin handlers inquired if PJ was secreting food to the mammals,
"No, they just know me and come to me. They recognize my gestures."
A statement that was scoffed at by one Sea World employee. "They
don't do that," she chastised. Yes we do, came the dolphins reply
as they continued to seek out and play with their good friend.
PJ was even
head-butted by an adolescent dominant male dolphin one morning at Sea
World. Typically, she immediately defended the dolphins' actions, "It
was this touron next to me. He was teasing one of my favorite guys by
dangling a fish trying to make him jump. He finally became frustrated
with the touron and flung his head in disgust and thrust forward. He didn't
know I was there. He didn't me to hurt me."
Princess
J was knocked dizzy from the heavyweight punch, Sea World employees scrambled
expecting severe damage, complaints and a hefty lawsuit moved to attempt
to mitigate the legal ramifications. But, PJ's concern was for the dolphins,
A relieved Sea World management watched on closed-circuit TV as Armond
led PJ out of the park as he delighted in her adventurous tale.
What propels
PJ? She has been like this since birth, fearless, determined, unstoppable.
Her mother
recalls that Jess has always fearlessly embraced the outdoors, "one
of my favorite 'Jessi' stories is when, at the age of under 2 years, I
found her at the top of that huge old pine out on the forty (she was just
following her brothers). I was freaking as she happily waved to me from
the very top of that pine!
Armond and
the boys had built a jungle gym -- from trees that they felled and stripped
on the 40 -- with climbing rungs that were tough for the older boys to
climb. The top crawling surface of the N-shaped gym was 8 feet in the
air. Armond came home that night to see Jess rocking atop the gym and
recalls, "I rushed over to rescue her so Terri wouldn't see her and
freak, but Jess just laughed from the top rung and crawled away from me.
Then, Terri explained, 'That's nothing, I had to retrieve her from the
top of the pine earlier.' I stood there with Erik and Jeremy and wondered
how in the hell she got up there."
Jess
embraced nature from her earliest days, "Both her and Erik knew that
forty acres better than any adult ever could. I remember her amazement
at watching turtles hatch in the driveway, and the beavers building their
damns, and the tame deer they used to chase from my gardens," her
mother proudly recalls.
Jess recently
recalled, "Grampa Roger is actually a Scotsman, and I believe I learned
some of the most valuable things I know from him. We spent a lot of time
out on the forty where he taught me everything from starting a fire with
birch bark and two rocks to building a fishing pole out of things found
in the forest. (I actually use to be quite the little fisherman, though
I left it to the boys to eat what I caught. even then I remember feeling
guilty about hurting the little guys that were thrown back) He also taught
me things like how to play poker, how to defend myself, how to read animal
tracks, all that kinda fun stuff."
Her mother
confirmed those earthy lessons, "Jess & Grandpa Roger spent lots
of time together when she was little-Grandpa would take the kids out to
the 40, and out fishing a lot. Grandpa Roger says he remembers, 'many
times chasin' little critters through the woods because Jess wanted to
see what kind of critter it was.'
Terri
continued, "She could keep up with any boy physically, climbing,
running and bike riding."
Princess
J began asserting what she felt in her heart early in her life. Mom recalls
that, "She was quite scrappy, and I received more than 1 call from
a grade school because of her 'outgoingness.' If somebody said something
she didn't like, she would let them know, and as a little girl, sometimes
that meant she would wallop you! Guess it was form growing up with brothers!"
"On
the other side," Mom added, "her aunt Jo got her started early
at being 'beautiful'. Jess wasn't 2 or 3 when JO started doing her hair,
nails and make-up. JO and Jess spent hours playing with makeup and looking
at clothes."
"Jess
is beautiful," beamed her mother, "and she knew it at an early
age!"
Armond says, "There has never been a cuter little girl, never will
be." He continued, "Seriously, that she is physically beautiful
is a harbinger of the astounding person inside, the proverbial tip of
the iceberg."
Don't parents
make you sick? (authors note, feel free to edit this.)
Diversity?
Attacking any challenge? "Jess played basketball for 5 years straight,"
reports mom, "She was always tops on her team, although sometimes
her aggressiveness got her in trouble!"
"And
Jess might not like to hear this, but she likes being the star! (her billboard
of Bryant school still stands that she did in 6th grade, when she did
attend school. Mom
boasts more, "she was a very good student, always good grades. Although,
again her scrappiness got her in trouble with teachers and students alike
(not much trouble, minor stuff like disagreeing with teachers, and smacking
mean boys.)"
Armond adds,
"it all came to a head when she refused to rise for the Pledge of
Allegiance due to the fact that she is part native American. I got called
into school. Here was a school counselor in Florida facing a Nakota Sioux
father. After a few words I promised that this would never be a problem
again and promptly withdrew PJ from the school. A few months later, she
tested out of high school -- at age 14."
Another strong
influence upon PJ was her grandmother, "Helen taught me much about
my polish heritage, and many skills I would need to run a household. How
to cook efficient meals with little supplies, how to hand sew, crochet,
knit. Her and Roger also ran there own restaurant throughout my child
hood where I gained much experience as a young waitress."
But, the
most profound influence in Princess J's life is her mother, Terri, a lady
of immense artistic talent, beauty, gentleness and unwavering devotion
to her children.
Thus, it
was the synergy of two remarkable people that resulted in the creation
of Jess, Princess of the Blackwater Tribe and souls' mate to all of her
"sea friends."
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